Healthy Love Has Green Flags. Are You Bringing Them? | Faith After Fire Pt. 3

We spent two episodes talking about red flags, potential, patterns, and assignments. Now it’s time to talk about what healthy love actually looks like.

In Part 3 of my Faith After Fire conversation with Caniesha Marsh, founder and CEO of Divine Connections Philadelphia, we flip the conversation from red flags to green ones.

Consistency. Mature communication. Respect for boundaries. Peace. Trust. Spiritual alignment.

And while listening back, I realized something else: some of the qualities I wanted to see in somebody else were still growing in me.

Because discernment does not give us permission to investigate, control, cross boundaries, or turn into a “cold sniper” looking for proof. Sometimes wisdom is trusting what God has shown us without needing to know everything He knows.

Using Proverbs 24:3–4, we break down the difference between knowledge, understanding, and wisdom, and how each helps us build healthier relationships.

The question is not only, “Are they a green flag?”

Are you bringing green flags too?

WORD OF THE WEEK

TRUST

Take what you’re sensing to God without turning discernment into surveillance. Receive the nudge. Honor the boundary. Trust God with what comes next.

SCRIPTURE

Proverbs 24:3–4

KINGDOM ARTIST

Anike

RADIO TRACK LIST

1. Anike, WINNING
2. 116 + Taylented feat. Childlike CiCi, Anike, Adia, Porsha Love, Queen Lee, Lee Vasi + Toyalove, Focused (Remix)
3. Anike + Porsha Love + HOLY GIRL X HLY GRL, HE'S GOOD (Everyday)
4. Anike, Watch Her Glow